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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ.
When we talk about valuing relationships, most people imagine grand gestures, gifts, sacrifices, and big promises. But in reality, relationships survive or break down over the small things. Harmony in relationships is very fragile, and like all things fragile, we have to handle it with care. Think of time. How many arguments in families or friendships begin with, โYouโre lateโ, โYou donโt know the value of timeโ? The waiting feels like disrespect, and the irritation spills ov

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 16, 20252 min read
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๐๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ก๐ โ๐๐ ๐จ๐ง๐ฅ๐ฒโ.
ยท We are all travellers of imaginary worlds, going on elaborate trips of lives we never lived. At every fork in the road, we made a choice. We chose the only path we could see, the one illuminated by the light we held at that moment, a light made of who we were, what we knew, and all we had already lived. We walked it. That path became our reality. You chose a particular academic stream, a specific job, and the one partner you married. But the mind is a restless time travelle

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 15, 20252 min read
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๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง: ๐๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ฅ๐ซ๐ฒ.
ยท A milestone is reached. An adult daughter, her own money in hand, buys a beautiful saree, a celebration of her independence and taste....

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 9, 20253 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฆ: ๐๐๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง.
We instruct them to calm down, to be patient, and to not get so angry. But our lectures are whispers compared to the thunder of our own...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 8, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐๐๐ ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ.
ยท We spend our lives chasing happiness. We believe it is a destination, a prize waiting for us on the other side of a specific outcome....

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 6, 20252 min read
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๐๐๐ฅ๐-๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฉ๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฒ.
We are taught to flinch from the word. Selfishness. It is a label we are taught to avoid, an accusation that makes us shrink. We are told...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Sep 20, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฐ๐จ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐ง๐ฌ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ
"My mom is old but very unhappy. I don't know how to make her happy" "My sister has done so much for me, but has been unhappy for years....

Sreedhar Mandyam
Sep 19, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ญ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ.
ยท The need to test often springs from a deep, quiet fear. It is a whisper of doubt that asks, "๐ด๐๐ ๐กโ๐๐ฆ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ฆ ๐กโ๐๐๐...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Sep 17, 20253 min read
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Congratulating people on getting a divorce that they wanted.
Recently, when I put the phone down after congratulating someone on the other side of the phone, the person who was in my presence asked,...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Apr 25, 20252 min read
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๐๐๐ฅ๐-๐๐๐ญ๐ซ๐๐: ๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ญ๐๐ฎ๐ซ ๐จ๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐
Self-hatred. Itโs something so many of us struggle with, but we donโt always recognize how much it holds us back. When youโre constantly...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 22, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ฌ? ๐๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ '๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ'!
Have you noticed how sometimes the key to solving a behavioural problem lies not in focusing on the problem itself, but in those moments...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 21, 20252 min read
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๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ข๐ง๐ฃ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐๐๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐๐ข๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ?
We are all deeply aware of the injustices we have faced. Maybe youโve been overlooked for a promotion because of office politics. Maybe...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 20, 20252 min read
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๐๐ญ๐จ๐ฉ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ง๐ฏ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ข๐ง ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ.
When someone puts money into buying the shares of a company, they generally have the idea of a stop loss in their head. If I have bought...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 18, 20252 min read
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๐๐๐ ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ฌ: ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐, ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐ฎ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ฏ๐.
You know that feeling, right? That little (or sometimes HUGE) voice in your head replaying past mistakes, "๐ฐ๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐ฐ ๐๐๐
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Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 10, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ - ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ ๐ซ๐๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ๐ก๐ข๐ฉ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฏ๐จ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ง๐ญ๐๐ซ๐ฒ
As we age, one of the most freeing realizations we can have is this: ๐๐๐ ๐๐
๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 7, 20252 min read
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๐๐๐ค๐ ๐๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ, ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐.
Freedom is a word we throw around a lot, right? But have you ever really thought about the kind of freedom you have? There's a huge...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 6, 20253 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ ๐๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐๐๐ง๐ญ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ, ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐ข๐ง๐๐ฌ๐ฌ
Have you ever felt like somethingโs just off in life, but you canโt quite put your finger on it? Maybe youโre doing everything...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 5, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐-๐๐ง๐-๐๐๐ค๐ ๐๐๐ง๐๐: ๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ ๐ญ๐ฐ๐จ-๐ฐ๐๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐๐ญ
Have you ever felt drained after giving so much to someone, only to realize they never show up for you in the same way? Maybe you've...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 4, 20252 min read
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๐๐ ๐จ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ค๐ ๐ฆ๐, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐ ๐ง๐จ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฐ๐จ๐ซ๐ฅ๐
Most of our conflicts, disappointments, and frustrations boil down to one simple thing - ๐๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐๐จ๐งโ๐ญ ๐ฆ๐๐๐ญ ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 2, 20251 min read
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๐๐ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐, ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ซ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก๐ซ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ฆ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ฆ๐ข๐ง๐.
Ever feel like you're constantly competing with people in your life? Like you're trying to outdo them, or prove something? I've been...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 28, 20252 min read
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