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๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ฅ๐ฎ๐๐ฉ๐ซ๐ข๐ง๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ๐ฆ๐๐ฅ.
A child does not learn what is right. A child learns what is normal. And for a child, normal is a simple thing. It is what happens at home. It is the background rhythm of their days, the unspoken rules that govern the people they trust most. They are silent, constant observers, and every action they see is a lesson in what the world is and how one should behave in it. When a parent interrupts another person while they are talking, the child learns that this is normal. They le

Sreedhar Mandyam
Nov 3, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐๐ซ๐ญ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ข๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ : ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ ๐ซ๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง.
We live in a world of now. A question appears in our mind, and Google provides an answer now. A hunger pang strikes, and Swiggy delivers...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 10, 20253 min read
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๐๐๐ซ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง: ๐๐๐ฏ๐ข๐ ๐๐ญ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐๐๐ง ๐๐ข๐ฏ๐๐ฅ๐ซ๐ฒ.
ยท A milestone is reached. An adult daughter, her own money in hand, buys a beautiful saree, a celebration of her independence and taste....

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 9, 20253 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ซ๐ข๐๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ฎ๐ฆ: ๐๐๐๐๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐๐ฅ ๐๐๐ ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง.
We instruct them to calm down, to be patient, and to not get so angry. But our lectures are whispers compared to the thunder of our own...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 8, 20252 min read
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๐๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐ก๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ซ๐๐ง ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐จ๐ญ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ ๐๐๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐ฌ
ยท When they are young, we carry our children in our arms. Later, as they grow older, we carry them in our worries. Every parent knows...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Sep 18, 20252 min read
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๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐๐ซ๐๐ญ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฅ๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ข๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ๐๐ฅ ๐๐ซ๐จ๐๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐ฌ? ๐๐จ๐จ๐ค ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐ญ๐ก๐ '๐๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐๐ง๐ญ๐ฌ'!
Have you noticed how sometimes the key to solving a behavioural problem lies not in focusing on the problem itself, but in those moments...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 21, 20252 min read
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๐๐ฌ ๐๐ฑ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐ง๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ญ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐จ๐ ๐ฅ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐จ๐ง๐๐ฌ ๐๐ฅ๐ฌ๐จ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐
There is a delicate balance between caring for your loved ones and smothering them with overprotection. Can excessive care and protection...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jul 25, 20242 min read
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Teaching loved ones to carry their umbrellas
โI have to enter the kitchen to do something and my wife rushes in asking what I want, what she can do etc. Canโt I do something for...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Aug 1, 20232 min read
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Do children need to be โproductiveโ all the time?
โWhenever I watch Japanese Anime which I love, my mom says, I am wasting my time. She says, I should watch National Geographic and I...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jul 26, 20232 min read
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Why be embarrassed by the emotions of our loved ones?
It was the gathering of relatives and halfway through it, the father got into an argument with a relative the argument became heated for...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jul 21, 20232 min read
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Stress is not bad all the time for children
Recently when conversing with a parent, I heard him say, โI donโt want my children to have any kind of stress in their lives.โ Many of us...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jun 30, 20232 min read
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Donโt discourage children from playing with informal toys
โI bought him so many toys, but look at that he plays with rocks, empty carton boxesโ the dad complained. The child, seven years old was...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jun 8, 20232 min read
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If you are sitting with your child to help prepare for the exams...
As a parent, quite a few people take an active interest in their childโs education, especially during exam time. If as a parent you are...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jun 5, 20233 min read
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Having a โchoreโ curriculum for children at home.
I grew up with three siblings at home and all the four of us had chores to perform at home from a very young age. It was someone's chore...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jun 4, 20233 min read
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Parents donโt have to make every moment into a teachable moment and blow away happiness.
I was watching a parent read a bedtime story to a child. The child was enjoying the moment as the parent read the story with a lot of...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jun 1, 20232 min read
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Child Sexual Abuse - Don't ignore children's negative talk about adults around them.
Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) is more common than most people acknowledge. Contrary to common belief, both boys and girls are subject to it...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 21, 20232 min read
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How to comfort children when they have nightmares.
Whether children or adults it is possible for everyone to have nightmares. In this context we think of nightmares as bad dreams, dreams...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 4, 20232 min read
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Disciplining children is tough love
The term tough love may seem self-contradictory but it is a reality and has a place in parenting. Parents are authoritative figures in a...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 2, 20232 min read
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Should I send my children abroad for studies?
Some parents are extremely enthusiastic about sending their children abroad for studies. In fact, it may have become a family culture in...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Apr 30, 20233 min read
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Sandwiched between two generations
The older generation, those above 65-70 are almost not answerable to anyone or at best they have to account for their behaviour only to...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Apr 29, 20232 min read
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