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Congratulating people on getting a divorce that they wanted.
Recently, when I put the phone down after congratulating someone on the other side of the phone, the person who was in my presence asked,...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Apr 252 min read
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𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐇𝐚𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐝: 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐒𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐭𝐞𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞
Self-hatred. It’s something so many of us struggle with, but we don’t always recognize how much it holds us back. When you’re constantly...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 222 min read
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𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐞𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐒𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐁𝐞𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬? 𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐡𝐞 '𝐌𝐢𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐌𝐨𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬'!
Have you noticed how sometimes the key to solving a behavioural problem lies not in focusing on the problem itself, but in those moments...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 212 min read
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𝐀𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐢𝐧𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐰𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐭 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦?
We are all deeply aware of the injustices we have faced. Maybe you’ve been overlooked for a promotion because of office politics. Maybe...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 202 min read
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𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐢𝐧 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬.
When someone puts money into buying the shares of a company, they generally have the idea of a stop loss in their head. If I have bought...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 182 min read
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𝐑𝐞𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐭𝐬: 𝐑𝐞𝐟𝐥𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞, 𝐝𝐰𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐬 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞.
You know that feeling, right? That little (or sometimes HUGE) voice in your head replaying past mistakes, "𝑰𝒇 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝑰 𝒉𝒂𝒅...",...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 102 min read
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𝐂𝐡𝐨𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐞 - 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐚𝐝𝐮𝐥𝐭 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐮𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐲
As we age, one of the most freeing realizations we can have is this: 𝒂𝒍𝒍 𝒂𝒅𝒖𝒍𝒕 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒑𝒔 𝒂𝒓𝒆...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 72 min read
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𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐠𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐨𝐦, 𝐁𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝 𝐏𝐞𝐫𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐞.
Freedom is a word we throw around a lot, right? But have you ever really thought about the kind of freedom you have? There's a huge...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 63 min read
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𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐫𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐚𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐮𝐧𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬
Have you ever felt like something’s just off in life, but you can’t quite put your finger on it? Maybe you’re doing everything...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 52 min read
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𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐢𝐯𝐞-𝐚𝐧𝐝-𝐓𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐃𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞: 𝐈𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐚 𝐭𝐰𝐨-𝐰𝐚𝐲 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐭
Have you ever felt drained after giving so much to someone, only to realize they never show up for you in the same way? Maybe you've...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 42 min read
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𝐈𝐟 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬 𝐰𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐦𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐧𝐨 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝
Most of our conflicts, disappointments, and frustrations boil down to one simple thing - 𝐏𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐦𝐞𝐞𝐭 𝐨𝐮𝐫...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 21 min read
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𝐈𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐟𝐢𝐫𝐬𝐭 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐦 𝐢𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐝.
Ever feel like you're constantly competing with people in your life? Like you're trying to outdo them, or prove something? I've been...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 282 min read
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𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐩 𝐉𝐮𝐝𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐘𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐏𝐚𝐬𝐭 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐓𝐨𝐝𝐚𝐲’𝐬 𝐋𝐞𝐧𝐬
Ever looked back at something you did years ago and thought, “𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑠 𝐼 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑛 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔?” Maybe it was staying in a job...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 272 min read
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𝐑𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬 𝐃𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐁𝐞 ‘𝐄𝐪𝐮𝐚𝐥’ 𝐭𝐨 𝐁𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐟𝐮𝐥
Have you ever felt like you’re the one always checking in on a friend, planning the get-togethers, or doing the emotional heavy lifting...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 242 min read
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𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞; 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐜𝐚𝐧𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐲 𝐚𝐫𝐞.
"Why can’t my husband be more organized? Why can’t he keep things in place? Why can’t he keep his desk and cupboard organized? Won’t it...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Aug 5, 20242 min read
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𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 '𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝'
“I want my son to take up a course/profession that other are not. I want him to be an independent thinker not be influenced by what...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jul 24, 20242 min read
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𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐜𝐡𝐨𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐬
“How many times should I ask you to finish dinner. Then I can clear the table” 𝐕𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐮𝐬 “If you have dinner now, I can clear the...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jul 23, 20242 min read
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Finding Vs Creating time, space, relationship, meaning etc
“I want to spend time with my family, but I am not able to find time” “I love music. I want to learn an instrument, just can’t find time...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Aug 3, 20232 min read
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Don't allow people to put you down because you don't know the headlines of the day.
“Do you know there may be a war between Russia and Ukraine?” asked the husband “No, I don’t know”, replied the wife “How can you not...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Aug 2, 20232 min read
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Teaching loved ones to carry their umbrellas
“I have to enter the kitchen to do something and my wife rushes in asking what I want, what she can do etc. Can’t I do something for...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Aug 1, 20232 min read
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