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Harmony in Relationships - Assumptions are one of the biggest causes of self-inflicted misery
Countless arguments and misunderstanding between people arise because of this one fact. We make assumptions about people - what they must...
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Apr 14, 20232 min read


Some of us are not designed for ‘office-work’ for earning
This is a realization that we meet often in life but just push it away. Some people are not designed to go out to an office, work from 9...
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Apr 13, 20232 min read


"He did not look like someone who would commit suicide”
When we hear of someone we know or a celebrity commit suicide, how many times have we heard that kind of statement from people around?...
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Apr 12, 20232 min read


Unresolvable frustrations are a part of life
In our lives, we would really love to solve all our problems. Who does not like that? The idea of a life without any problems seems...
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Apr 11, 20232 min read


There are many faces of grief
Recently someone I know lost her husband after nearly 40 years of a good marriage. She went about briskly arranging for the last rites of...
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Apr 10, 20232 min read


Freedom is a need too
One thing this pandemic has made us aware is our love and need for freedom. Earlier too, before the onset of the pandemic, we may have...
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Apr 8, 20232 min read


Practice social distancing from Happiness Police.
Let no one make you feel guilty for finding some joy in these times The News is filled with articles on human suffering, pain,...
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Apr 7, 20232 min read


Helping others to achieve their dreams, realize their potential and believe in themselves
Harmony in Relationships Helping others to achieve their dreams, realize their potential and believe in themselves While we go about...
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Apr 5, 20232 min read


Life in slow motion
Does not life move much slower in reality than what it does in our minds? In our minds, life plays out at a much faster pace. Events that...
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Apr 3, 20231 min read


What if there is no unconscious thinking process at all?
Book Intro: The Mind is Flat by Nick Chater. All our life we have been told by Psychologists that we do thinking at two levels conscious...
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Apr 2, 20233 min read


There Are Too Many People Inside Me!
There are too many little people inside me who are struggling to get out. It is not just me, but these little people are inside all of...
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Apr 1, 20233 min read


A method to stop mental chatter
Words flow endlessly in our head and at times it can become disturbing. Our conversations in the mind is either with ourselves or with...
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Mar 31, 20232 min read


The path not travelled does not exist!
We all have traveled one path in our life and that is the reality. But in our mind we keep traveling down paths we have never traveled in...
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Mar 30, 20232 min read


Seeking external validation is necessary for us.
“My son is 12 years old and he still seeks validation for his actions from us and friends” “My husband at 40 still asks his elder brother...
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Mar 12, 20232 min read


When you don’t say, “I am fever”,” I am cold”, "I am fracture", why say “I am depressed”, “I am anxi
When you are running a temperature, you tell people, “I am having a temperature” or “I am having fever”. You are not going to say, “I am...
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Feb 26, 20232 min read


The people we give to and the people we receive from are often different.
“I have helped my sister so many times in my life but she is never there for me when I want it” “This has happened often?” I asked “Yes,...
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Feb 26, 20232 min read


Congratulating people on the getting a divorce that they wanted.
Recently, when I put the phone down after congratulating someone on the other side of the phone, the person who was in my presence asked,...
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Feb 23, 20232 min read


Don’t confuse people’s opinions with truth
While the philosophical idea of truth can be debated endlessly without coming to any conclusions, in our real life we need to distinguish...
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Jan 31, 20232 min read


Surrendering to the strengths of others around us
“I think you missed a turn back there”, said the daughter sitting beside her mom. “No I didn’t” replied the mother, “the turn is further...
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Jan 14, 20232 min read


Our strengths can also be our weakness
We can look at our strengths as our personality strengths (I am…), our external resources like our relationships, our possessions, our...
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Dec 27, 20222 min read
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