Sreedhar MandyamApr 23, 20232 minWhy do most apologies feel unsatisfactory?Anatomy of an apology“Do you want me to apologize?” “I am sorry IF I hurt you” “You want me to say sorry? Sorry, now are you happy?” “I am sorry but…” (an...
Sreedhar MandyamApr 22, 20232 minDoes Going on an expensive vacation help solve deep-rooted issues?Every time the couple had a fight, one of them would suggest taking a travel trip. “Let us spend time together in a faraway place”,...
Sreedhar MandyamApr 21, 20233 minA counsellor is not a mediator, detective, lawyer, or a judge.When you are in the thick of counselling, it is very easy to get either confused about your role or get drawn into playing a different...
Sreedhar MandyamApr 19, 20232 min"I am not passionate about anything. Is something wrong with me?”We hear people telling us all the time to ‘follow your passion’. We think of passion as some work that you are dying to to do, something...