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Self-compassion - a skill in short supply for most people
When I talk to many people in a counselling session or in a general conversation, one thing that strikes me often is the total lack of...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 22, 20232 min read
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Child Sexual Abuse - Don't ignore children's negative talk about adults around them.
Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) is more common than most people acknowledge. Contrary to common belief, both boys and girls are subject to it...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 21, 20232 min read
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Anniversaries of painful events
Whether consciously or unconsciously the mind remembers the anniversary dates of painful events in our life. The really emotionally...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 20, 20232 min read
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The world of book summaries
Those who love fiction have their favourite authors and genre. Some don’t have any specific preference and will read anything that they...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 19, 20232 min read
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Things not to say when someone has gone through a trauma
Everyone experiences traumatic events in their lives. It could be loss of a job, failure of a venture, the discovery of a...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 18, 20232 min read
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Agape - the love for nature and natural phenomenon
When you are driving on the road you can see this huge hill right in the middle of the road. You know the road is going to bend around...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 17, 20232 min read
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Training for something is different from trying something.
“I tried to learn dance, but I gave up” “I tried writing but lost interest” “I tried to learn cooking but was not successful” You can...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 16, 20232 min read
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Finding happiness in routines, as life is 95% maintenance days
The human mind excitement and wants to be busy, wanting new experiences. We think happiness comes from the ‘exciting’ days of our lives....

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 15, 20232 min read
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“I don’t have any life-goals. Am I weird?”
There are perhaps two kinds of people in this world. The goal-oriented persons and the floaters. The goal-oriented person has very clear...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 14, 20233 min read
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“Don’t want to hear human voices for some time”
For some people at some point in their life, when they are upset with life in general, all human voices can become irritating. They say...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 13, 20232 min read
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We don’t have to overcome all our fears
Many of us have fears that have prevented us from doing many things. People could be afraid of driving, swimming, speaking in public, and...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 12, 20232 min read
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Healthy Sadness - All sadness is not depression.
All sadness tends to get labelled as depression these days. Clinical depression is a mood disorder that needs to be evaluated by a...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 10, 20232 min read
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Is there anything like unconditional love among adults?
The idea of unconditional love is so egalitarian, enchanting and appealing. Most people would like to be recipients of unconditional...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 9, 20232 min read
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“People call me ‘emotional’. Am I?”
My answer to that is, “Yes, you are and so is everyone else”. No one can claim that they are not driven by emotions. Emotions define us...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 8, 20232 min read
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Why do we keep trying to impress people who keep rejecting us?
“My friend said, I could never do a good painting. I will show him” “He dumped me because I was not good for him. I will show him what I...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 7, 20232 min read
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Lines to use when you don’t want to get into arguments with others.
There are many situations in our lives when we don’t want to get into an argument with others. At times we may not be in a mood to even...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 6, 20233 min read
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For Peace of Mind - Stop talking to people in your head
From the time consciousness washes over us as we awake from sleep, there is an endless talk that goes on in our head. Most of the time,...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 5, 20232 min read
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How to comfort children when they have nightmares.
Whether children or adults it is possible for everyone to have nightmares. In this context we think of nightmares as bad dreams, dreams...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 4, 20232 min read
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Grandparents often bond better with their grandchildren than with their own children.
Sometimes when I look at how the next generation is treated by our parents, I envy the next generation. With us, they would be strict,...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 3, 20232 min read
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Disciplining children is tough love
The term tough love may seem self-contradictory but it is a reality and has a place in parenting. Parents are authoritative figures in a...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 2, 20232 min read
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