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"My adult children cannot get along with each other, what do I do?"
The dream of every parent is a happy family where the spouses get along with each other and the children get along with the parents and...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Apr 4, 20232 min read


Seeking external validation is necessary for us.
“My son is 12 years old and he still seeks validation for his actions from us and friends” “My husband at 40 still asks his elder brother...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 12, 20232 min read


“I thought Life Skills was only for children to learn”
At the conclusion of the course one of the participants said something very significant, “I had the belief that learning Life Skills was...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 25, 20232 min read


Have you learnt this important skill - Asking for help?
There are many skills we need to learn to survive and thrive in our lives. Asking for help is a skill that is underrated. In fact many...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 22, 20232 min read


Why be embarrassed by the emotions of our loved ones?
It was the gathering of relatives and halfway through it, the father got into an argument with a relative the argument became heated for...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Dec 6, 20222 min read


Adults getting frustrated with the wrong problems of children
One of the main reasons why some children do not score well in Maths is that they are poor in language skills. You might wonder what is...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Oct 1, 20221 min read


Some questions to ask children when they come from school or when you are introduced to them.
The questions we ask people when we meet them show what we give importance to in their lives. What do we value in other people’s lives?...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Sep 29, 20222 min read


Children calling elders by their first names
Some people are shocked when they hear children in some households call elders by their first names. In most homes, the parents are often...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Sep 24, 20222 min read


Comparisons Kill
Odious. Parents wield many weapons against their children. Sharp laced comments, insidious barbs, emotional blackmail or the deadly...

Sarita Talwai
Sep 16, 20222 min read


Should parents discuss the negative aspects of their children with others?
Recently, while sitting in a cafe sipping coffee, could not help but overhear four mothers discussing their children. Three of the...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Aug 22, 20222 min read


Do children need to be ‘productive’ all the time?
“Whenever I watch Japanese Anime which I love, my mom says, I am wasting my time. She says, I should watch National Geographic and I...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jul 28, 20222 min read


Protecting people we love all the time or teaching them to protect themselves?
“I don’t want to take cash, can you transfer the money online to my account?” I asked a friend recently. “I will ask my dad to do it,”...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 27, 20223 min read


Rote learning is not child abuse
Rote learning is getting a lot of bad press these days. Many schools and institutions advertise, ‘No rote learning’ without really...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 19, 20222 min read


Daily arguments over fans/lights switched on in empty rooms
Disproportionate responses to people’s behaviour around us cause a lot of unpleasantness. When we are on the other side don’t we feel for...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 18, 20224 min read


Board Games - Bonding Better with Family Members
There is a saying, Families that eat together stay together. In many families, although sadly on the decline, eating together one time a...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 17, 20222 min read


Passionate Detachment
Every morning at about 9.30, two toddlers march briskly towards the sand pit in the play area opposite my flat. Armed with spade and...

Sarita Talwai
Apr 25, 20222 min read


Curiosity does not kill
The one gift every parent should bequeath to her child is the unconditional freedom to be curious. The world is full of wonderful things...

Sarita Talwai
Mar 3, 20222 min read


The Bookworm Turns.
I remember playing ‘ library- library ‘ with my kids years ago. An underused room was converted into a reading room cum library. Two mats...

Sarita Talwai
Jan 12, 20222 min read


To survive, you must tell stories...
Carrying Tales. Life is really just stories strung together. If we stop and think for a moment, the most mundane of situations have the...

Sarita Talwai
Jan 7, 20222 min read


Benign Negligence.
Laid Back parenting style Our parents stumbled into parenthood and then bumbled their way through it. For the most part, they left us to...

Sarita Talwai
Jan 2, 20222 min read
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