We are taught to flinch from the word. Selfishness. It is a label we are taught to avoid, an accusation that makes us shrink. We are told...

"My mom is old but very unhappy. I don't know how to make her happy" "My sister has done so much for me, but has been unhappy for years....

· When they are young, we carry our children in our arms. Later, as they grow older, we carry them in our worries. Every parent knows...