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Protecting people we love all the time or teaching them to protect themselves?
“I don’t want to take cash, can you transfer the money online to my account?” I asked a friend recently. “I will ask my dad to do it,”...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 27, 20223 min read


Refraining from being solution-oriented ALL the time.
First scenario: The child comes back home from school and says, “You know what happened today? My friend Rahul stopped talking to me.”...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 25, 20222 min read


Should decisions in the family be democratic or should everyone get their chance?
Eight of the members of my family had gathered together. People across three generations. We needed to decide where to go for dinner and...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 24, 20222 min read


Beta testing relationships
Society alters its shape every decade or so and it seems to be happening faster than before. The way we commute (Uber, Ola, Metro), the...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 22, 20223 min read


Daily arguments over fans/lights switched on in empty rooms
Disproportionate responses to people’s behaviour around us cause a lot of unpleasantness. When we are on the other side don’t we feel for...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 18, 20224 min read


Board Games - Bonding Better with Family Members
There is a saying, Families that eat together stay together. In many families, although sadly on the decline, eating together one time a...

Sreedhar Mandyam
May 17, 20222 min read


Giving up the need to be right
A wise man once said, “Avoid arguments if possible, especially if impossible”. Arguments are no doubt a part of every relationship and...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 14, 20223 min read


All complaints of loved ones do not have to be attended to.
Boundaries for self People who are important to us in our lives, our spouse, children, parents, siblings, friends etc will come and...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Mar 3, 20222 min read


Teaching loved ones to carry their umbrellas
Like Helicopter Parents, there are Helicopter Spouses and Helicopter Siblings too. “I have to enter the kitchen to do something and my...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 22, 20222 min read


Don't expect people to work hard for your quirky needs
A relationship would always mean a compromise. The moment we have a relationship and live with someone, (parents, spouses, siblings,...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 15, 20222 min read


MAID IN INDIA
Day 1 “She has quit the job”, the wife started, bitterness and anger rising in her. “Why are you saying that?”, her husband asked...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 10, 20223 min read


Being Non-Judgmental – The 40-60-80 Principle
We were headed on the Bengaluru – Hassan highway in my cousin's car. The weather was glorious, the road smooth and the conversation...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 9, 20223 min read


The Apostrophe Connections in Our Life (In India)
Recently I ran into my friend who had come down from the USA where he stayed with his wife and two kids. Catching up with him over a cup...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 7, 20222 min read


The Art of Gifting
Recently an athlete from the Rio Olympics was gifted a BMW car by some sports association. The athlete wanted to return the car as the...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Feb 6, 20223 min read


Covert Patriarchy
. I am guilty of endorsing it. I promote it when I go shopping with my daughter and coax her to buy 'suitable clothes'. I foster it when...

Sarita Talwai
Jan 22, 20222 min read


Giving 'silent company' to people
"Give me some silent company" Recently someone came home and asked, “Are you busy?”. I replied, “Just answering some emails”. “Can I just...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jan 22, 20222 min read


Why are you like you, be like me.
A conversation between father and son: “You are eating sweets in the end. You should eat it before you eat the curd rice” “No, I don’t...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jan 14, 20222 min read


As an adult child, how to handle your parents' arguments and fights?
In our culture, adult children keep in constant touch with their ageing parents, many living in the same house or at least on two...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jan 11, 20223 min read


Things that don't matter with people who matter
Harmony in relationships is priceless. Especially in relationships that matter to us – our close family, friends, colleagues. Many...

Sreedhar Mandyam
Jan 5, 20223 min read
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